That one time I turned the wrong way, drove 20 miles, and missed my daughter’s band concert I was encouraged to share a ‘bad mom’ moment. Here’s a doozie: Zoya, my second daughter, participated in her school band in the fifth grade. She chose to play the trumpet which thrilled me, having been a trumpeter myself in my youth. I located my instrument from high school and cleaned it up for her use. The class started.