Gillian Marchenko

March Home Staging, Jooniper Design, Author & Speaker
Love pushes us to the front of the crowd, reflecting on a dual diagnosis

Love pushes us to the front of the crowd, reflecting on a dual diagnosis

I belong to a private Facebook group for parents who have kids with a dual diagnosis of Down syndrome and autism. I think of myself new to the autism world but in actuality, my fourth daughter Evangeline has held the diagnosis for, oh my goodness what has it been? Two years? Although I mostly lurk, the dual diagnosis group has become a place of refuge for me. I find parents sharing their days with one

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Should you throw a birthday party for your child with special needs?

Should you throw a birthday party for your child with special needs? When the time is right… YES! We did it. We finally had a ‘friend’ birthday party for our daughter Evangeline when she turned eight years old a couple of weeks ago. I know some of you are probably thinking, ‘why is this even a question?’ I get it. I really do. Of course all kids deserve parties. But for some of us, it

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5 strategies for YOU when your spouse fights depression

Everyone, I’m thrilled that my husband Sergei, in the midst of everything else he’s got going on, was able to write a blog post in honor of Mental Illness Awareness Week. A lot of us know that depression is a family illness. I often get questions from spouses of someone who is depressed. Any tips? What can I do? How do I cope? I’ve asked my husband to share some thoughts. Please join me in

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Mental Illness: when you fear you are losing your mind on a weekly basis

Mental Illness: when you fear you are losing your mind on a weekly basis (As this sometimes occurs, please forgive me if this post comes across muddy. I am not doing so hot today. Also, warning: this post my have some triggers for those who struggle with mental illness.) This week, October 4th through the 11th, is Mental Illness Awareness Week. I knew that I was supposed to post about this because I openly write

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