Gillian Marchenko

March Home Staging, Jooniper Design, Author & Speaker
Thankful for special needs adoption

Thankful for special needs adoption

(In the midst of all my other writing projects, I’ve been writing down snapshots from Evangeline’s adoption in Ukraine :). Plus, November is Adoption awareness month, which got me to thinking …) In 2009, my husband Sergei, our older daughters Elaina and Zoya, and I all travelled to Ukraine to adopt a little girl we were to name Evangeline, who happened to have Down syndrome like our youngest daughter Polly. Our special needs adoption from

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On coming out of depression

On coming out of depression One of the strangest things about coming out of a recent bout of depression is fighting myself not to fall into it again. And then re-learning how to do life. As I get healthier mostly by working on catching my thoughts before they catch me, focusing more on the things of God, seeing a therapist, and taking medication, I am shocked at how ingrained my depressive behaviors have melded into

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What to do with a severe and profound label for my daughter with Down syndrome?

What to do with a severe and profound label for my daughter with Down syndrome? I am immobile this morning. It happens with me, what with my struggle with depression, parenthood in general, kids with special needs, pre-teens with attitudes, hang nails, you know, big stuff. Sergei and I had a an eligibility meeting a few days ago with our daughter Evie’s (6 years old, Down syndrome, adopted from Ukraine) school regarding her services and placement.

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10 things TO SAY when a baby is born with Down syndrome

10 things to say when a baby is born with Down syndrome Here it is, day 31 of blogging for Down syndrome awareness the month of October. Phew. I’m tired! A few weeks ago I posted 10 things not to say to a parent of a child with Down syndrome. Someone emailed me a day or two later. “My father and I were talking about your post about 10 things not to say to a

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