Gillian Marchenko

March Home Staging, Jooniper Design, Author & Speaker

Leading the way, thoughts about sisterhood and Down syndrome

(I’m on vacation this week … So here’s a post from the archives. Enjoy!) Leading the way, thoughts about sisterhood and Down syndrome When Polly was born and we learned of her diagnosis of Down syndrome, I grieved the child I expected. I didn’t know much about Down syndrome. My mind quickly flipped to un-flattering images of a child sitting alone at recess, or a mother in her golden years walking slowly through the aisles of

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World Down Syndrome Day 2013, RAISE YOUR FLAG

World Down Syndrome Day 2013, RAISE YOUR FLAG Today is World Down Syndrome Day 2013 … And I have no idea what to write, let alone the message I want communicated in the words I type. Why is this? I’ve been advocating for my daughters with Down syndrome for seven years. Even in the beginning, after my daughter Polly was born, as I grieved the child I expected (mostly out of ignorance), I still picked

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In My Arms, the privilege of holding my daughter with Down syndrome

In My Arms “Mom!” Polly yells out in her sleep. Her body thrashes to and fro on our Queen sized bed. Her legs kick the covers off. Sweat glistens her forehead. Her father and two older sisters went out for the night. Her little sister, having been all tuckered out from school and therapy had been asleep for an hour. I bedded Polly in next to me, thinking that my husband would move her when he

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